Why a Legacy?
Why Leave a Lasting Legacy?
Legacy…on what does that word mean to you? Leaving a positive and compelling legacy or heritage is what life is really about. ..
What is the key to success?
What really matters?
What footprint are you leaving on life and others?
Do you want to impress or influence?
What is the stuff of a real legacy?
In a word—relationships.
The quality of your legacy will be measured by the quality of your relationships through life. Leaving a heritage and legacy is not rocket science. Success, real success, comes from intentionality and achievement of goals and planned outcomes around relationships with others. These key relationships define your values and determined the heritage or legacy you leave behind.
This is a form of immortality in that you leave a piece of your life behind with those whom you’ve loved and had relationship with. As you pour your heart and life and gifts and to others,you truly begin to define your life message as you invest in other people. These friends and loved ones and family members cannot help but be touched by your real-life example, model and witness.
We all leave footprints when we walk on the beach of life and the same is true for our walk through life. We are all leaving behind something. For some us it’s a mixed bag. For some of us it’s extremely negative and for others it’s a positive life legacy. These are the relationship based people who prepare for a real inheritance of true riches by transferring their passion and love over to others. This love is more often caught than taught. These are the people who model a positive life two is solid and sane walk through life that leaves each of us changed, sometimes in the most subtle way.
Transferring your passion to other people through intentional awareness and focused planning of who you are and who you want to be is a core practice of a life well lived. Much of this is on the subconscious level, and is not animated, overtly planned, or conscious. These are the people who touched our lives, and didn’t even know it. These are the ones who profoundly changed us with how they lived and conducted their lives in love, faith, hope, kindness and gentleness. They are genuine people who live transparent lives and leave real riches behind that have nothing to do with stuff. They are relationship based from beginning to end. They are relationship people, not stuff or object people. Possessions and material goods mean little or nothing to these relationship based individuals,
How do we then go through life being aware, focused and intentional in developing and fostering quality relationships, which result in a positive legacy? What are the keys, core values, outcomes and questions, which can unlock this life well lived? What are the principles? What are the rules? What of the protocols? Where do we get started? Who are the examples? How do we know when we are on track or not?
People who leave a positive life legacy and heritage through life lived on purpose in positive relationships are truly rich. They’re transferred passion and modeled and taught us things that are truly important. May we be as good as students as they are teachers.
Parental legacy—
What is the bottom line of what you want to leave behind as a parent? Is it…
· Money?
· Portfolios?
· Real estate?
· Stuff?
· Values?
· Faith?
· Ethics? or something much more?
What does a genuine positive legacy look like? What are the elements, characteristics, and hallmarks of a positive legacy and heritage? What is the essence—the bottom line here?
The answer lies in nurturing relationships. Relationships are all we leave behind. To be more effective parents, who leave a positive heritage and legacy we need to be able to equip and nurture our children and it starts in the context of relationship. This is to set the foundation of best practices as a family leader or parent and involves…
1. Time to foster nurturer relationship with their kids.
2. A foundation of best practices, systems and protocols regarding family.
3. To incrementally introduce and practice the habits, attributes, and tools to parent with purpose driven intentionality.
4. To correctly grow our families to fulfill their best and highest potentials.
5. To listen and express oneself — being an active participant and honest communication
6. Being an actively engaged family member
7. To willingly and purposely pass on our love, humanity, and positive values to our loved ones
What is the essence and bottom line? These are just some aspects of the positive parent total legacy…
1. Foundation of faith
2. Contentment and satisfaction
3. Knowing who you are—strengths and weaknesses, gifts and more
4. Hopes, dreams and visions
5. Lessons learned and experiences gained
6. Knowledge and wisdom and understanding
7. Values and ethics
8. A thankful spirit
9. Love for God
10. Love for people
11. Love of nature and creation
12. Love of themselves
Is critical and crucial that we pass along a positive legacy because it pleases God, blesses the community, and identifies personal quality so lacking in our world. People of genuine quality are a rare and precious phenomenon today. By loving our children unconditionally and making them our priority of focus and care, we can add to what’s lacking in our civilization.